What a lot of guys fail to realize is that picking up younger women is actually pretty simple. As an older guy, you’ve got a lot going for you that younger guys don’t have.
Namely, you’ve got experience, a career, and the confidence and monetary resources that go along with that. These are very valuable assets in the eyes of any woman. It’s no secret that women mature faster than men. Therefore, when you run into a woman who happens to be twenty-one, you can be damn sure she’s sick of hanging out with broke, buffoonish frat boys who still act like they’re fifteen and enjoy hanging with their bros more than the company of a sexy young lady.
So, what does all this mean for you? Well, for starters, it means that if you understand these things, you will pick up on the fact that a woman of that age is craving for a mature man who can treat her right, take her to nice places, engage in some thoughtful conversation, and most importantly teach her things in the bedroom most young guys simply can’t. On that last point, let’s be real here, most guys in their early twenties have no idea how to please a woman. It isn’t until you get older and gain some experience that you really now how to be a good lover.
Anyway, let’s get down to some details on this. For starters, you need to use your age and position in life as an asset, not something to be embarrassed about. One of the major reasons why the idea of an older man appeals to a younger woman is that he is ostensibly confident in his position in life. So, if you realize that, you’ve almost won the battle! In sum, you need to approach a younger women with the knowledge that your years of experience and the confidence that comes with that shines through. When you combine that with the fact that you have the means to wine and dine the object of your desire, you’re absolutely golden. Let’s face it, most guys in their early twenties can barely afford to take their date out to the local bar.
Of course there are some guys like the author of this article on dating younger women who will tell you its a bad idea… Here’s my take on these guys: they can’t date younger women and therefore they don’t want anybody else to either. It’s sad, but some married men are so miserable in their relationships that they have nothing better to do than to try to persuade their fellow men from enjoying themselves. Whatever you do, don’t listen to these guys, they probably couldn’t date women in their 20s even when they were in their 20s, and don’t listen to women over 30 who may try to advise you on this subject either, for reasons that should be obvious.
In the end, if you remember these facts and use them to your advantage, you’re going to be pleased with the results indeed!