So you are interested in learning how to go about attracting women like a true born STUD?
Good for you dude!
Whether you are currently pursuing the woman of your dreams or you have been in a relationship for quite some time and you feel that the flame needs some rekindling, welcome…
You have come to the right place.
To get straight to the point, when it comes to women, there is one thing that you really need to keep in the forefront of your mind: paying attention to detail.
Yes. You read that right – when it comes to the opposite sex, attention to detail is essential.
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Why Is Paying Attention To Detail SO Important??
What exactly does this mean?
Well, if you want to woo a woman or catch her attention, you will have to put in the work.
This means being very attentive when it comes to her physical appearance, her emotional state, and her verbal and non-verbal cues.
And, once you have established an intimate relationship with her, you want to be sure to compliment her on her hair, her clothing, and her beauty – this is especially the case when she has just gotten her hair done or is wearing an outfit you haven’t seen before – this is how you let her know you are paying attention.
(As an aside – Many guys who suck with women will tell you that you should give a woman chocolates, flowers and sweet notes…Want to guess how well that works? …. Usually it has the opposite effect! Read up on The Scrambler to see why and what to do instead!)
Asking Questions & Being Attentive To Her Emotionally
In order for a woman to really fall for you – she needs to feel that you have a special connection.
This is achieved when she feels that you really “get her” in terms of understanding what she is all about, her needs and so forth…
In addition look for clues by asking questions to the women you are trying to date or are already dating/in a relationship with.
Ask her how her day went. Inquire about her thoughts and opinions. Take her into your arms when she is feeling down.
You might just be surprised at far how these seemingly small gestures will take you in your relationship. I promise, the rewards will definitely be worth it.
Paying Attention To What She Responds To
When you are interacting with a woman, take note of how she reacts to the things you do and say.
Are there certain topics that she gets excited to talk about? Talk about these more…
Are there certain things you do in bed that make her moan louder? Do those things more…
This isn’t rocket science fellas.
Attracting Women With The Power Of Micro-Expressions
Some of the most interesting an overlooked details you will want to look for are her “micro-expressions”. These are split second facial expressions that women make that you can use to know exactly what they are thinking at any given moment.
This is a rather complex topic, that I can’t go into great detail on in this blogpost, but if you are serious about learning the most powerful ways to go about attracting women be sure to read up on this. The science behind reading micro-expressions was developed a Dr. named Paul Eckman. Personally I find his research fascinating!
Handle The Details Of How You Present Yourself
Lastly, remember that women are much more concerned with details than men are, so keep up on the little things that most guys overlook like trimming your finger nails regularly, wearing a nice smelling (but not over-powering) cologne, and keeping your clothes fresh smelling, stylish and in good order.
These things seem rather unimportant to most men, but when you are trying to win a woman’s love (or simply get her into the sack), these things are definitely worth paying attention to.
No – you don’t need to look like a male model or dress up all fancy all the time, but being aware of how you are presenting yourself is not to be overlooked!
Hopefully this post has set you straight in terms of the most important factors when it comes to attracting a girl you like… There is a lot of misinformation out there and it’s important not to believe most of what mainstream “experts” say on this subject!
If you are an older guy – or even just 40 or so you should also read this post I wrote about attracting YOUNGER women when you are over 35…
Lots of guys are tricked by the mainstream media into believing that young chicks (like 19-30) don’t want to date/sleep with older guys – but nothing could be farther from the truth!
Don’t fall victim to this ridiculous misinformation… learn the truth and live life to the fullest!